How to Write a Children’s Book

It’s not easy to learn how to write a children’s book. I teach a class on writing picture books for McDaniel College every spring, and we cram a lot into eight weeks. It’s really too short of a time to write a full developed picture book. But once the manuscript is strong and polished (after lots of critiques and revision), what next? What are the next steps to getting published?

I get this question a lot from the authors I work with on Reedsy. I believe this is the first and most important question to consider.

  1. Do you want to follow traditional publishing or self-publish?

Both of these paths have pros and cons. But before you can choose, you need to know what they mean.

Traditional publishing means you submit your work a publishing house that decides to buy your manuscript, pay you an advance, send you a contract, find an illustrator, pay for the publication work, and market the book. If you’re lucky, the book will sell enough copies that you will earn out the advance and someday you’ll get royalty checks.

Self-publishing means you do all of this on your own. You find the illustrator, you pay the illustrator, you pay for the printing, you pay for the marketing and distribution.

Traditional publishing is slow. And there are more details to understand. Some publishers take manuscripts from writers that don’t have agents, but many don’t. And finding an agent is tough. You need to have more than one manuscript prepared and polished so the agent knows you are someone they can work with long term. The agent only makes money if you sell manuscripts and books, so agents don’t sign clients unless they are viable business partners.

Traditional publishing also means you need to know the rules of the writing game. You need to know how to format your manuscript, how to write a query letter, how to write a synopsis, and how to write a great story. You need to know what is selling in the current market. You have to read lots of books written for the same age group that you plan to write for. You need to understand how illustrations work with your story.

Traditional publishing requires an investment of time and the development of knowledge. But once a publisher decides to work with you, you can be sure you’ll get paired with an incredible team. You’ll have editors, copyeditors, art directors, and marketing and publicity.

Your contract will include an advance. It will be a nice amount of money, but not life-changing. When your book sells, you’ll get something like 8-10% of the cover price. You’ll earn about 1.99 on each book sold. But you won’t get that money for awhile. You need to pay the publisher back for the advance. So if you got a $5000 advance, you need to sell 2,512 books before you have paid back what you owe. Only then do you get royalties. There’s some info online that estimates most books sell less than 2000 copies.

If you decide to self-publish, you have to make all of these decisions about design, editing, illustration, layout, printing, publicity, promotion, marketing, sales, sales tax, events, and more on your own. It’s a LOT. It’s hard. Yes, you get to keep more of the cost of each book sold. But you have to put up all of the initial money, too.

Many people want to only create e-book versions of their children’s book in order to minimize printing costs. This model works for YA, and perhaps some middle grade. But it’s not worth it for picture books. Kids are not reading e-books the way adults do. And adults don’t buy e-book versions of picture books. Especially at young ages, books are an alternative to devices.

If you want to sell a lot of copies of your self-published books, you will need to think about where you can sell. I recommend skipping book festivals and books stores. You’re just competing against every other book there. Look for places that attract customers who are interested in your subject matter. So if you write about dogs, see if you can sell books at a dog daycare or pet store.

This is only a quick overview of the most basic, first question to consider. There are most questions to resolve, and I hope to address them in future posts!

 

Gifts and Gratitude

Have you joined me on Birding the Rachel Carson Trail yet? No? Now is the perfect time. Become a subscriber at any level, or leave a tip in the tip jar, and you will receive the gift of the 2026 Bad Bird Photos Calendar! The 2026 Bad Bird Photos Calendar features absolutely awful photos of adorable birds and some largely irrelevant insider info about each bird. These photos will have you squinting with uncertainty and questioning if I know how to use a camera! There’s nothing quite like the 2026 Bad Bird Photos Calendar.

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I received a wonderful gift recently. My manuscript won a Work in Progress award from SCBWI. SCBWI is the Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators. It’s a worldwide professional organization for creators, and I’ve been a member for over a decade. I’ve met incredible people through SCBWI, made friends, professional contacts, developed my skills and supported others. It’s really a gift to be a member, and I’m grateful for the recognition of this manuscript and its potential!

Screenshot of a work in progress award announcement from SCBWI

WIP Award Announcement

Join me on my “Joy Project”

You’re invited to join me on my new adventure, something I’m calling my “joy project.” It’s all about writing, birding, walking, and learning – and you can come along with me even if you’re not in Pittsburgh.

 

Let’s go Birding the Rachel Carson Trail! 

 

Every season for a full year, I’ll walk the trail in parts and pieces and track the birds (and other things) I see on the way. I’m sharing each essay on my Substack page. There’s lots of other great content there, too.

I hope you’ll choose to drop something in the tip jar for “Birding the Rachel Carson Trail” and the many wonderful creatives who share their passions and joys, too.

October To Do List

October used to be the eighth month in early calendars. Here are eight things to do this month.

  1. Read a banned book during Banned Book Week (and all year).
  2. Catch a lucky leaf. Go on a run and if you catch a falling leaf midair, make a wish!
  3. It’s dew season. That means it’s cool at night, but not cold. Go for a morning walk and look for spider webs decorated with dew drops.
  4. Bake some barmbrack. his traditional Irish cake that may, or may not, give us a glimpse into the future.
  5. Confirm you can vote in next month’s elections. Local elections matter just as much as national elections. The deadline in PA is October 20.
  6. Have you gotten your flu shot yet? If not, do it today! The best time to get it is between September and October.
  7. Celebrate Indigenous Peoples Day and learn about the indigenous people in your community!
  8. Go birding on October Big Day on October 11!

Let me know which activities you plan to try this month!

barmbrack cake

Barmbrack cake has hidden items, so choose your slice carefully!

Virgos

I turn 50 this month!

Yes, I have a summer birthday and don’t you forget it.

You may know I’m a Virgo, but I’m not super mystical about it. However, there are some attributes that seem to ring true.

“…perfectionism and criticism…complex and demanding…can be difficult to live with, but no one can doubt their sincerity…a humanitarian streak…like to make an important contribution to society…preoccupied with health and fitness…they are constantly worried about it…They wonder what it would be like to have their own business.”

This was interesting:

“Virgo likes: Animals, healthy food, books, nature, cleanliness.”

And here’s another one:

“…ambitious and organized…will endure in all activities that require time and a long battle…often find their way to leading positions in large systems that need to be maintained and held organized and strict. Areas that might spark their interest and bring out the best in them are those in writing about history, gathering biographic details on people who once lived…”

Essentially, Virgos like me love “everything that is complicated and in need of fixing…connecting their own inner extremes of beauty and responsibility into one.”

Hmmm. I’ll let you be the judge if that sounds like me.

I had intended to make a list of 50 cool things, or 50 things that I think are cool, for my 50th birthday. But honestly, I think so many things are cool, I don’t even know where to start. Books? Birds? Foods? People? Cities? Heck, I could write a list of 50 cool words, like “syzygy” and “lavaliere” and “coracle.”

Picking the topic of the list is only one problem. Limiting the list to 50 things is the next problem.

Perhaps I’ll save this activity until next year, when I can choose 51 cool things.

 

 

Three Things I Learned in Japan That Changed My Perspective

Mt. Fuji, Lake Ashi, Torii gate

Fuji-san rises above Lake Ashi. The torii gate invites you to embrace peace and respect nature.

It’s a big milestone year for us – several notable birthdays, graduations, and celebrating 25 years of being married to my best friend and love of my life. When my son suggested we travel to Japan to honor such a momentous year, we said “hai!”

For the next several months we planned the trip, researched the culture, the food, the history, the sights. I switched my Duolingo course to Japanese and found a tutor online to help me practice.  As our departure date neared, we got excited! We packed our bags, prepared to adjust to the time change, and suddenly found ourselves eating egg sandos outside a 711 in Shibuya.

We didn’t just bring home sunscreen, face masks, and Pokemon cards.

Here are three things that I learned – but there are so many more.

  1. The Japanese language doesn’t have a future tense. At first, I wondered how that reflected their culture’s sense of time, or their understanding of their place in the world. If they are very focused on the present, does that make them savor it more? Or are they a seriously YOLO country? Turns out my speculation wasn’t new, but it also wasn’t accurate. Their verbs don’t have a future tense, but they use other words to mark time. It’s so important not to assume things about cultures, or people, but to listen and learn.
  2. It is possible to have clean cities. Yep, it can be done. Japan’s cities are the largest in the world. And they are so incredibly clean. They don’t have trash bins every few feet. YOU are responsible for carrying the waste you create. This made us very thoughtful and aware. One morning I birded along the Kamo River in Kyoto and saw a man cleaning litter from the river. This attitude of cleanliness shows respect for your home, your neighbors, your world. You can do this in your city. We can do this in our city. We don’t need to live in communities with trash everywhere. Start today by cleaning up your own neighborhood.
  3. Gratitude is essential. I knew I would not become fluent in Japanese in six months. But I hoped to learn enough to be polite and respectful. Two essential phrases that I learned and loved using were “itadakimasu” and “gochisosama-deshita.” You say itadakimasu before a meal, and it means something like “I humbly receive this” or “I’m grateful for this food.” After eating, say gochisousama-deshita. Again, it means thank you for this meal. Whenever we said these simple phrases, the servers and staff smiled with delight. We felt happy in return. We began to look forward to these moments before and after meals when we could make someone happy by expressing our thanks, and feel happy in response to their joy!! Even know I can feel myself smiling remembering people’s responses to these simple acts of gratitude.

Words, as we know, have so much power. There’s also a special phrase to thank someone who hosts you at their home, or an inn, or ryokan. When I used it, again people were visibly delighted.

We learned so much from our time in Japan. (Learning vacations are a thing with us). My son described the experience as “paradigm shifting.” I know we will move forward in our lives with these new perspectives guiding us.

 

Three Things My Kids Taught Me This Year

Things in Pittsburgh come in threes. Three rivers, three eagles on the city coat of arms, three kids in our family. Each of my kids is in a different stage of their educational journey. My oldest is midway through the traditional four year college experience. My middle just graduated high school. My youngest completed his first year of high school. I know they had a lot of learning moments, good and bad, in the past school year. So I asked them what some of their life lesson moments were, big and small.

The youngest said, “People exaggerate a lot of things. People want to impress others more so they make stuff seem harder than it actually is, or harder than it should be.”

The middle said, “You are the only one who can make a change in yourself. Don’t look to others to change yourself.”

The oldest said, “Going to the gym on a daily basis has helped my social anxiety. When I first went I was so worried people were looking at me. They weren’t. My confidence improved. By the end of the semester, I couldn’t wait to go. It made me more comfortable in uncomfortable situations.”

My kids learned facts and formulas, they wrote essays and read books, they took tests and did homework and all the regular kind of learning. But they also learned some important things about themselves, and about the world around them, that wasn’t spelled out on the syllabus.

I loved asking them this question and then listening to their thoughtful, insightful answers. It showed me how much they are growing. And they offered some great advice that will help me in my daily life. Hopefully their lessons will help you, too.